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March 11, 2012

What can we HONESTLY afford to live WITHOUT? Think about it!

By Aishah Schwartz

What can YOU live without?

Finances. An all too familiar uncomfortable discussion in your household? I was in a chatting recently with a good friend who happened to be feeling somewhat overwhelmed and torn between those things you think you just have to do or have now and those things that were part of a list of long range goals. The conversation got me to thinking; a lot.

One of the traps we tend to get caught up in is the commercialism of holidays. Add to the scores of holidays scattered throughout our annual calendar, the birthdays of family members and friends, co-workers, anniversaries, special commemorative events, etc., and what is the bottom line - REALLY?

Let's do the math. Pull out a calendar. Go through it and circle every holiday, every birthday, every anniversary, and any other commemorative holiday related to family remembrance, national honor, etc., then go back through and count them.

Next, trace through your memory (or your check book), and run a total on the amount of money, as close as you can estimate, that was spent over the course of the year (or the year to-date) for those events/holidays...and share your comment about the first thing that came to your mind when you hit the total button on your calculator.

Then ask yourself how far back the total of those expenditures has taken you/your family away from reaching short and/or long-term goals.

Now, slice-and-dice that number down to something (1) a little less shocking; (2) a little more manageable; (3) a little more goal oriented...

You know what I have learned in my 50-years?

It is absolutely amazing what one can live WITHOUT. *smile*

On a personal level, I've lived without a microwave oven for almost five years now; something I would have never imagined! Truth? I learned to live without a microwave; and have no desire whatsoever to buy another one! I would venture to say that not only has living without a microwave been better for my health, it's also bound to have contributed to a decrease in the amount of my electric bill over these past five years!

Lets make a list! What can YOU live without?

Hey! I just ran a search on the subject and found some interesting links to share - in fact, Oprah Winfrey did a "What can you live without" experiment back in 2009 - posted below are a few links from the website in addition to links for a few articles on the subject.

But really, I would love to hear back from some of you! Seriously! What can YOU live without?


Oprah Winfrey's What Can You Live Without? Experiment

Families Learn to Live with Less

Kristin and her children go back to basics

The importance of simplicity

Others reveal how they're cutting back

Secrets of Simplicity

Oprah's What You Can Live Without Survival Guide

NY Times: What could you live without?

What can you live without or make yourself?

What can you live without travel sacrifices

1 comment:

  1. Advice to the Muslims and Muslim women wherever you are .... The first lesson that you need to know in studying Islam is "Tawheed" (Oneness of God in all creation throughout nature, in worship, and in establishing a name - the name and nature - the nature of God). Or referred to, Tawheed rububiyah, Tawhid Uluhiyah, and Tauhid's name - the name and nature - the nature of God.

    [ESSENCE and position]
    God's Word I:
    "No. I only created jinn and man but
    only to worship (1) Me. " (Surah Adh -
    Dzariyat: 56).

    "And verily We sent Apostles
    in every nation (proclaiming): "Beribadalah
    Allah (alone), and depart from Evil " (2). (Surat an
    - Nahl: 36).

    (1) Worship is servitude to Allah ta'ala to obey all
    His commands and avoid all of his ban, as has been
    delivered by the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam. and this is
    the nature of Islam, because Islam is submission to its meaning
    God alone, who is accompanied by absolute obedience to Him, with
    full of low self-esteem and love.
    Worship means also all the words and deeds, both physically and
    mind, which loved and blessed by God. And a charity will be accepted
    by God as an intentional worship sincerely for Allah
    alone, and follow the guidance of the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam.

    (2) taghout is: each is honored - but God - to worship,
    adhered to, or observed; both glorified it in the form of stone, human
    or the devil.
    to be continue....